Archive for the 'Letters To Deb' Category

My Daughter Is Gay And I Need Help

Hello and I wanted to ask a few questions. My daughter is gay has  married her  life partner who has given birth to a baby boy now going on age 2 ..My daughter  is very educated and has moved to the west coast to live and wants nothing to do with me??? Is it normal [...]

Tough Times Even With Gay Siblings

I am one of 6 siblings. Four of us are gay.  I am writing because even though you might think this is the ideal scenario for a lesbian to grow up in, we’re actually all quite isolated from each other. The two straight siblings are increasingly homophobic and have a holier than thou attitude towards [...]

Worried For 15 Year Old Gay Daughter

My daughter who is 15 just told me that she is gay.  I really didn’t know how to respond except to tell her that I thought she should concentrate on her studies rather than whether or not she liked boys or girls.  I also told her to concentrate on being a good person right now, [...]

Distressed Mom Of Gay Son

Hi, My son is 18 years old.  A couple of years ago I realized that he might have gay potentials and even though I had asked him about this at that time he denied it.  Christmas 2007 he came to me and finally told me the truth. As a mother I knew this in the [...]

Family Verses Living As A Gay Male

I am a 21 year old gay male, have always known that I was gay never really had any attraction whatsoever to members of the opposite sex. Although i had been active since Junior High I did not come out to my family until Fall of 2005. Now my parents are considerably older then normal [...]