Comments on: A Gay Boys Advice To Parents http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents Help For Parents Of Gay Children Mon, 30 Aug 2010 19:08:02 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Josh http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-9081 Josh Mon, 23 Aug 2010 23:09:10 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-9081 Hi I'm 14 and bi , I'm really confused can someone help me? Hi I’m 14 and bi , I’m really confused can someone help me?

]]> By: mark http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-8919 mark Thu, 19 Aug 2010 13:31:41 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-8919 I simply reply why should I? I mean it really has no specific meaning in telling people you dont really know its like a straight guy saying Im straight! and I know it might sound homophobic but why try to risk all the bullying for telling ppl youre gay? Personally just tell the most import peple to your heart. peace and love to all my fellow gays, bi's, and lesbians. email me if u wanna talk: silver.marvel@yahoo.com screw all u homophobes gay is freedom!!! I simply reply why should I? I mean it really has no specific meaning in telling people you dont really know its like a straight guy saying Im straight! and I know it might sound homophobic but why try to risk all the bullying for telling ppl youre gay? Personally just tell the most import peple to your heart. peace and love to all my fellow gays, bi’s, and lesbians. email me if u wanna talk: silver.marvel@yahoo.com screw all u homophobes gay is freedom!!!

]]> By: mark http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-8917 mark Thu, 19 Aug 2010 13:20:08 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-8917 are nice! Even the guys seem to be more outgoing... Well anyways a lot of random people come up to me and ask me "are you gay?" i simply say no. Because matter of fact I am Bi did they ask me if I was Bi? Nope. I mean I try to see in me what makes them see me as gay? I dont walk girly, I dont talk girly, I dont dress girly, but i guess its wat I wear: I like to wear preppy clothes and nice stuff. But who doesnt like that stuff!?! well back to topic my one friend im out to asks why dont you tell everyone? are nice! Even the guys seem to be more outgoing… Well anyways a lot of random people come up to me and ask me “are you gay?” i simply say no. Because matter of fact I am Bi did they ask me if I was Bi? Nope. I mean I try to see in me what makes them see me as gay? I dont walk girly, I dont talk girly, I dont dress girly, but i guess its wat I wear: I like to wear preppy clothes and nice stuff. But who doesnt like that stuff!?! well back to topic my one friend im out to asks why dont you tell everyone?

]]> By: mark http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-8916 mark Thu, 19 Aug 2010 13:10:29 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-8916 and they are hispanic so all the men in the family tend to be macho. Being Hispanic also changes things, your family expects you to be macho like I said... Not that im not macho in fact i got some nice arm muscles! :D At school many of my closest friends think im gay and they possibly know it because they always pay things like "you are such a girl slut" and with me occasionally responding "damn right!" So I live in Ontario, California but go to Upland High School. The area is a suburb and many of the ppl and they are hispanic so all the men in the family tend to be macho. Being Hispanic also changes things, your family expects you to be macho like I said… Not that im not macho in fact i got some nice arm muscles! :D At school many of my closest friends think im gay and they possibly know it because they always pay things like “you are such a girl slut” and with me occasionally responding “damn right!” So I live in Ontario, California but go to Upland High School. The area is a suburb and many of the ppl

]]> By: mark http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-8915 mark Thu, 19 Aug 2010 13:00:16 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-8915 I too am one of those people who were different i always liked girls but something just didnt click. Soon I found myself fantasizing and falling in love with peple. My mom and sisters and brother love me 2 death and i guess they suspect im gay because they always joke around with me... every now and then my mom says to me and my youngest sister(16) that if we were gay that if we would tell her, she always tends to look at me during those "conversations." But my dads side of the family who is very religiou I too am one of those people who were different i always liked girls but something just didnt click. Soon I found myself fantasizing and falling in love with peple. My mom and sisters and brother love me 2 death and i guess they suspect im gay because they always joke around with me… every now and then my mom says to me and my youngest sister(16) that if we were gay that if we would tell her, she always tends to look at me during those “conversations.” But my dads side of the family who is very religiou

]]> By: brandon http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-5131 brandon Sun, 07 Feb 2010 01:53:08 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-5131 im 15 and im gay. all i ever hear is bla bla bla about im a gay kid and my family shunned me and i constantly get teased and made fun of and so on but if thats the case then im sorry to say this blantently but stop being a big pussy (no offfense to girls). if someone is making fun of you kick thier ass or teach them a lesson. your still a human being and deserve respect. if all you do is walk around feeling sorry for yourself then hell to the yeah your gonna get made fun of but if you straight up tell the person thats making fun of you back the fuck up then chances are a)you will get picked on less b)you will get some friends who respect you and stand up for you. about your unaccepting parents thats probably easier to deal with than dealing with people who pick on you. if your parents ignore you because you told them your gay or if they r in denial then what you have to do is get in their face ( literaly) and tell them that if they dont stop playing their 3 year old bullshit games that they will lose you forever. you need to make them understand that you r who you r and you will not take shit from anyone not even your own parents. if they want to completely take you out of the family or disown you then force your way into thier lives and make them realize that they r horrible parents who dont deserve children. and finally if you have told your parents that your gay and now you feel that they r trying to invade your life ,they arent. they want to know more about you so they can understand you and help you and protect you because you may think that youre invincible but youre not. if your parents constantly adk you questions then answer them all and answer them truthfully just lay it all out on the table and let whatever is left take its course im 15 and im gay. all i ever hear is bla bla bla about im a gay kid and my family shunned me and i constantly get teased and made fun of and so on but if thats the case then im sorry to say this blantently but stop being a big pussy (no offfense to girls). if someone is making fun of you kick thier ass or teach them a lesson. your still a human being and deserve respect. if all you do is walk around feeling sorry for yourself then hell to the yeah your gonna get made fun of but if you straight up tell the person thats making fun of you back the fuck up then chances are a)you will get picked on less b)you will get some friends who respect you and stand up for you. about your unaccepting parents thats probably easier to deal with than dealing with people who pick on you. if your parents ignore you because you told them your gay or if they r in denial then what you have to do is get in their face ( literaly) and tell them that if they dont stop playing their 3 year old bullshit games that they will lose you forever. you need to make them understand that you r who you r and you will not take shit from anyone not even your own parents. if they want to completely take you out of the family or disown you then force your way into thier lives and make them realize that they r horrible parents who dont deserve children. and finally if you have told your parents that your gay and now you feel that they r trying to invade your life ,they arent. they want to know more about you so they can understand you and help you and protect you because you may think that youre invincible but youre not. if your parents constantly adk you questions then answer them all and answer them truthfully just lay it all out on the table and let whatever is left take its course

]]> By: Elias http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-4893 Elias Sat, 16 Jan 2010 01:43:23 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-4893 hi im 16 and i've been bisexual all my life... seriosly most people say they notice they are gay/bi when they are in their teen years, well i've been bisexual for a very long time. if you want to talk to me about what to do or how you should feel when it comes to people teasing you saying "haha your gay...fag.." and "go away faggot" please, please email me at Azelias@live.com or gostkilla93@yahoo.com or (lol) gostkilla93@gmail.com and if non of these work please use youtube.com/kira4ever123 just dont leave a message on my comments no one there knows im bisexual. i have a hard time trying to tell my parents that im bisexual. my moms like this really high up important person at the town hall and my step fathers this heavy punk rocker. my brothers are seriosly "special" (anger issues,ages 7 and 11) i have to go to cuonseling three times a week just because my family treats me like im a slave. but thats not the half of it... i try so hard to find boys that will go out with me but dispite my greatest efforts no one will...I wish i had more firends...ever since i told them i've been shunned away and i cant even walk to my locker anymore... i saw sme guys horsing around and as soon as i walked up they said "faggot" and everyone stopped and gave me that stupid stink eye. im kinda isolated at the mommunt trying to get into a foster home or something... but its really hard when people tell me my family loves me (even though they never ever treat me like it)...i dont wanna take up to much space now so please email me sometime any time...ok this may sound loserish but if you play runescape (online roll playing game instant message me there as a friend Gostkilla93 thats my user name if im offline i'm not playing! lol please, please email me... if i learn to trust you and your not just some 40yr old guy trying to rape me i'll email you my phone number hi im 16 and i’ve been bisexual all my life… seriosly most people say they notice they are gay/bi when they are in their teen years, well i’ve been bisexual for a very long time. if you want to talk to me about what to do or how you should feel when it comes to people teasing you saying “haha your gay…fag..” and “go away faggot” please, please email me at Azelias@live.com or gostkilla93@yahoo.com or (lol) gostkilla93@gmail.com and if non of these work please use youtube.com/kira4ever123 just dont leave a message on my comments no one there knows im bisexual.

i have a hard time trying to tell my parents that im bisexual. my moms like this really high up important person at the town hall and my step fathers this heavy punk rocker. my brothers are seriosly “special” (anger issues,ages 7 and 11) i have to go to cuonseling three times a week just because my family treats me like im a slave. but thats not the half of it… i try so hard to find boys that will go out with me but dispite my greatest efforts no one will…I wish i had more firends…ever since i told them i’ve been shunned away and i cant even walk to my locker anymore… i saw sme guys horsing around and as soon as i walked up they said “faggot” and everyone stopped and gave me that stupid stink eye. im kinda isolated at the mommunt trying to get into a foster home or something… but its really hard when people tell me my family loves me (even though they never ever treat me like it)…i dont wanna take up to much space now so please email me sometime any time…ok this may sound loserish but if you play runescape (online roll playing game instant message me there as a friend Gostkilla93 thats my user name if im offline i’m not playing! lol

please, please email me… if i learn to trust you and your not just some 40yr old guy trying to rape me i’ll email you my phone number

]]> By: Tim http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-4318 Tim Sat, 14 Nov 2009 00:45:38 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-4318 Hey, I'm a junior in high school, and am haveing complications with my sexuality. In recent months, I've grown very accepting of myself (mostly because of a guy at high school and no nothing happened.), and I've come out to quite a few people now. However, I'm finding it rather hard to come out to my parents, because my father is a god fearing, song leader/sunday school leader at my church, and my mother is in my opinion unaware of her hypocratic behaviors toward others. I'm very worried that I will be disowned and am trying to prepare a "cushion" to land on if, and when I tell them. If anyone has anything that can help me with my situation, that would be much appreciated. A worried son ___________________ "It doesn't make them bad people, it just mkes them teens and pree-teens" -Judge Judy- Hey, I’m a junior in high school, and am haveing complications with my sexuality. In recent months, I’ve grown very accepting of myself (mostly because of a guy at high school and no nothing happened.), and I’ve come out to quite a few people now. However, I’m finding it rather hard to come out to my parents, because my father is a god fearing, song leader/sunday school leader at my church, and my mother is in my opinion unaware of her hypocratic behaviors toward others. I’m very worried that I will be disowned and am trying to prepare a “cushion” to land on if, and when I tell them. If anyone has anything that can help me with my situation, that would be much appreciated.

A worried son
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“It doesn’t make them bad people, it just mkes them teens and pree-teens” -Judge Judy-

]]> By: Matthew http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-4087 Matthew Sun, 20 Sep 2009 23:00:27 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-4087 im 15 and bi yr 11. I came out to my two closest friend (Girls). They had said that they were waiting for me to say that. Now they treat me bit diffrent (askin if i wanna hang around with them outside of sch ect). I have always been bullied because people think im gay. Someone at sch overheard me talking and have threatened me that they will tell people if i dont do what they say. I have though Suicidal Thoughts. Im worried bout sch as im only out to close friends what should i do mail me doddlefox@msn.com im 15 and bi yr 11. I came out to my two closest friend (Girls). They had said that they were waiting for me to say that. Now they treat me bit diffrent (askin if i wanna hang around with them outside of sch ect). I have always been bullied because people think im gay. Someone at sch overheard me talking and have threatened me that they will tell people if i dont do what they say. I have though Suicidal Thoughts. Im worried bout sch as im only out to close friends what should i do mail me doddlefox@msn.com

]]> By: Cindy http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents/comment-page-1#comment-3514 Cindy Tue, 16 Jun 2009 07:32:04 +0000 http://gayfamilysupport.com/blog/a-gay-boys-advice-to-parents#comment-3514 Hello: I have a 15 year old son who came out in 7th grade. We always knew from the time he was around 3. You may say how did you know this? Well, he always liked dresses, pretty ponies, the color pink and for about a year insisted that he was a girl. We tried to balance, provided some form of "boy" toys like trucks and Barbies. But he had a real preference for the Barbie. Since he came out he has had several obstacles. He thought it would be easier because people were always asking why he had so many girlfriends and he thought he would clear this up. Lately, he has had sucidal thoughts, taken up smoking pot, was busted last year for possession, and is feeling very isolated. He is a well liked, popular boy at school but feels very alone. His dad is very accepting of him and loves him very much as I do. Any body out there with a similar situation? Hello: I have a 15 year old son who came out in 7th grade. We always knew from the time he was around 3. You may say how did you know this? Well, he always liked dresses, pretty ponies, the color pink and for about a year insisted that he was a girl. We tried to balance, provided some form of “boy” toys like trucks and Barbies. But he had a real preference for the Barbie.

Since he came out he has had several obstacles. He thought it would be easier because people were always asking why he had so many girlfriends and he thought he would clear this up. Lately, he has had sucidal thoughts, taken up smoking pot, was busted last year for possession, and is feeling very isolated. He is a well liked, popular boy at school but feels very alone. His dad is very accepting of him and loves him very much as I do. Any body out there with a similar situation?

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